To use tabs, please use full web version. I believe the goal of parenting is to give my children the skills to become self-sufficient physically, socially, and spiritually. As I try a new technique I ask myself, is this teaching my child how to make good choices? Is she learning to ask God what the correct choice is? My goal is that my girls will be able to fully function as God's servants and become strong leaders for positive change.
Friday, November 18, 2011
Ask how they feel
My daughter had a friend over one day. As typical, there was an argument and both girls were crying. After trying to solve the problem I backed up and asked by daughter how she felt and why. She said, "Sad, because she won't be my friend." Then I asked her friend who gave the same answer. Finally I said, "How about you both give each other a hug and be friends. They did and the tears were over! Legitimizing the feelings is a great way to start solving a problem.
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